The season of good tidings often brings an awkward moment. It has happened in the checkout line, on a phone call, during a quick conversation with a neighbor. I'll say, "Merry Christmas." The other person will respond, "Happy holidays." Tranquility turns to tension. A simple exchange of well wishes ends uncomfortably.
But this year will be different. I'm going to say "happy holidays" - not only in response to others but as my default December greeting. Far from being an effort to avoid religious language, I've come to understand that the phrase is inherently religious and respectful.
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