Utahns should have been riled up when the U.S. Supreme Court refused to hear their state’s plea to keep its marriage amendment intact, but no. They didn’t take to the streets in protest like the nearly million people in France did in May 2013 when same-sex marriage was legalized. They didn’t scream that their constitution amendment passed by a strong majority had been trashed—or at least not very loudly. If a recent poll is to be believed, what many did is change their mind.