In my book "Kosher Adultery" I suggested that husbands make their wives into webcam girls. I was being facetious, but only just. We remain sexually healthy when our sexuality is not repressed. Why not cater to the male need for voyeurism by allowing husbands to stare at their knowing wives? It may not be everyone's cup of tea but then sex is highly personal. Rather than condemn individual erotic needs as sick, why not cater to it in a kosher way? And if a wife is fine with her husband taking pictures of her changing, who cares?
Now comes the painful news that a well-known Rabbi in the nation's capital was using other men's wives as his webcam girls. The pain of the victims is unimaginable as is the culprit's family. Women go to the mikveh (Jewish ritual immersion bath) to feel spiritually and physically rejuvenated. They do not go to feel dirty. The mikveh is a place of female sanctity. It has been shockingly violated.
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