Since my comments on the issue of the moment in Roman Catholicism, communion for the divorce and remarried, have been overwhelmingly critical of the main proposals for a change in the church’s discipline, I think it’s only fair to write a post that addresses itself to what I think the church can do, without lurching into self-contradiction or betraying the New Testament, that might lift unnecessary burdens off some couples’ backs. I’ll use as my jumping-off point this post from Kyle Cupp at Patheos, which sketches a situation in which, as he puts it, “following doctrine can have harmful side effects”: