For several years now two friends and I convene in South Florida for an annual time of sharing, lamenting, thankfulness, praise, challenge, rebuke, encouragement, celebrating, and much needed sleep. Why do we do this? Because we need each other. I think God made us to be in relationships with others. It’s a part of what it means to be human. I consider myself blessed to have good friends. As 2011 comes to a close, I am very thankful that God has provided me with amazing friends.
The Bible explains the value of good friendships. When David heard of Jonathan’s death he lamented poetically, “I am distressed for you, my brother Jonathan; very pleasant have you been to me; your love to me was extraordinary, surpassing the love of women” (2 Samuel 1:26). Friendships among God’s people in the ancient Near East are so foreign to the way Americans live life that most churches would probably throw men out for uttering words like David’s.
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