It was in a forum on Nov. 19 of last year. For seven minutes and 38 seconds, Rick Santorum spoke about the health struggles of his daughter Bella, and his response thereto. The most stunning line was this, after saying that for the first five months of her life he had tried to be "the rock" for his family, the one who didn't break down and show too much sorrow or grief. But he wasn't really a rock, he said: